Rarity of Foreign Girls and Chinese Boyfriends

This is a common problem in North America as well, where majority of the couples I encountered are Chinese girls + foreign men. having lived abroad for so many years, and had many long discussion with friends (foreigner and Chinese) about this topic in the past. I can conclude that foreign women have almost zero interest in Chinese men, because most western girls have this racial discrimination encoded in their thought that Chinese men are inferior to western men in almost every aspect – partly we have to blame medias such as TV and movies to enforce these ideas(where Chinese men are always stereotyped as being short, weak, ugly, cheap, and sissy(娘）)

the reason for Chinese women+ foreign men couple is that foreigners put very high importance on appearance, where the foreign men can accept their opposite to be much smaller than them, and thinks that Chinese girls are generally cute and pretty, but the foreign women likes large and strong men, and thinks that the Chinese men are small and ugly, and basically this “made in china” flag pops in their mind when they see an Asian men.

So for this reason, many of us good Chinese men cannot find a girl abroad, this is truly disappointing, because the foreign girls do not like us, and our own Chinese girls abroad also do not like us either! they all cling onto the foreign men like magnets. what can Chinese men abroad do? Nothing! No choice but to 打光棍儿.

Chinese men and foreign girls can become good friends, mostly because the Chinese men serves as comical relief for the girls, but no sexual interest is there. The foreign men views Chinese girls as a sexual toy, many foreign men told me that they just want to come to china to “fuck girls”, and surprisingly, the Chinese girls in China let them do exactly that. There is so much bias in a Chinese girls’ view of foreign men (again emphasized by movies and TVs) sees a foreign men, and automatically thinks he is rich and handsome and generally a big hero, even if this foreign men is one of the most oldest, cheapest and ugliest looking men in America.

Let me tell you sticky chinese girls, most foreign men in china are trash (there are exceptions but that’s a topic for another day), they cannot survive in their own foreign country, they have no money, and come to china to 混日子(also known as “teach English”), and their main goal is to screw as many Chinese girls they can before they leave. and as soon as they get out of the airport, they are treated as 贵宾, but in fact, they are the lowest form of society in their own country.

so next time, Chinese girls, take care before you girls jump towards a foreign men thinks you hit a gold mine.

What? haha….gives us a break!?!JeeZ.
Stop STEREOTYPING…all of us “foreigners” as the same.
I wasn’t going to bother about replying but then i thought..
No, time to put the record straight and a few facts.
Where do you get your statistics from? Who cares if all your
seeing in , Beijing for example, mostly Chinese and Foreign men.
I noticed all your photos above, and i can “TELL” immediately that
just about all of those are genuine,in love, couples.
How? Look at the Chinese girls.My Chinese wife said most of those
girls (she looked at these photos) are ‘very’ average looking and
could even be called ugly by most Chinese men.
I will be living in China soon myself and its NOTHING to do with
the fact that im ugly , poor and miserable. haha!!
I make several thousand a month online,have a caring loving amazing
wife and Chinese friends and family, and i love the Chinese people, cultural and LAID BACK life style of where she lives.
Sure there are sex-tourists there and they’re despicable low life maggots but hey?? They are EVERYWHERE…we have them in Australia here, they’re in America,UK…everywhere. I think because the population of 1Billion its easy to make a call like that but in reality more Foreigners are gong to Bangkok, Thailand and other Asian countries, even Japan…not just China.
And age gap? not an issue..My wife said to me, regarding my 12+ age gap that “..there’s no guarantee of a happy marriage at any age, it takes 2 people to work at it, together.”
You know…you wont find me complaining at all the 100,000+ Chinese living here in Australia, buying up all our real estate and settling down in our country, we dont complain about you at all.
Oh…let me ask you, what type of “CHINESE GIRL” are these men going after? We have those “girls” here in Australia too…we call them sluts, i am sure that even a small percentage of slutty Chinese girls seems like millions to you but i am sure there are not that many.
maybe they all live next door to you, now HAT would Pi$$ me off too LOL.
Look, a large percentage of foreign men,LIKE ME, came looking for a traditional loving Chinese woman because the FACTS are women in my country are (i better not say) but fat, ugly and do not look after themselves, smoke all the time, swear, are rude, disrespectful etc..
Most Chinese woman are NOT like this at all, something that is VERY ATTRACTIVE to Foreign men, believe me.
My wife i think , to me, is adorable and cute and sexy.BUT i showed some Chinese men, who i did not know, a photo of my wife…they all said she is fairly average. WHAT???? See….most foreigners find what YOU CALL AVERAGE as very cute. But that’s just on the surface.
Their inner world is what attracted me to her.

Anyway, were not all the same, scumbags are in every country and handsome men HERE find it hard to get “committed loving caring women” in their own country.
BESIDES, some men like foreign ladies, some ladies like black men, some women like women….who are we to judge,
take care,
Rob

This article is stupid!!! And another example of promoting racism.

The story is not based on actual facts & figures and is based on one writers observation. True, there are more foreign male with Chinese female IN CHINA!! But what are the percentages of male compared to female who actually visits China?? Not only that, how many Chinese men do actually try to court Caucasian woman? No many since many have the false idea of being inferior and a-lot cannot assimilate into the western culture.

Most Caucasian male when trying to court an Asian female do go out of the way to adapt to the culture and even language.

I am Chinese but was fortunate enough to grow up overseas and I have seen numerous Caucasian woman with Asian men because I’m not IN CHINA!!!

Come on Chinese Men, stop feeling so inferior!! go out there and get it!!!

uh foreign women are also BIGGER than most asian men. MOST women do NOT want to be larger than their boyfriends.